VanillaShaming
Vanilla shaming is apparently when people mock or humiliate others for liking plain ordinary sex without kinks? or fetishes?. I'm surprised I have to write an article on this (boy, how times have changed), but it is wrong to shame someone for their sexuality, and wrong to pressure them into doing sexual acts. It used to be that people with different sexualities were shamed and humiliated for being perverts or deviants.
I suspect this vanilla shaming thing is from internet porn, too, that is, people think internet porn is a documentary and that people are really into all kinds of weird things. Again, pornography is nonsense, and it's the people who think that it's real who are dumb.
If someone's vanilla shaming you and they're not your sex partner, they're minding your business about something extremely personal, which is wrong of them to do. If they are your partner, they need to stop doing that. If they don't, maybe they shouldn't be your sex partner anymore.